Was It Wrong For Falling In Love?

Do you, like me, agree with the idea that falling in love is actually the best feeling that you ever had in life? Believe it or not, survey proved that people who are often in love will live longer than those who don’t. Why? Because when you were in love, almost every aspect of your body worked properly. Your hear beat works better, your blood pump better, your immune system, your senses, your brain, even your digestive organs work properly. Don’t ask me why, am not the scientist here, but yeah, it happens. No, am not going to preach you guys about all of those facts in my blog. Hey, my writes were never about something scientifically, remember? But, my question is, who own those sweetness and privileges in this world? I mean, does falling in love only belong to singles? So that if you were not available anymore that means that you have to close your eyes whenever your type of opposite sex person passing by? I mean, I won’t be lie here, but sometime when a cute guy went passed me, of course I would notice.
Am I a bad girl? Here is the thing, as a human being, I often confused about this love thing. A couple of months ago, when one of my girlfriends was kind of flirting with someone else behind her partner‘s back, another friend of mine told me to talk to her as I was the closest one to her compare to everyone else in our group. I don’t know about you guys, but for me, there was nothing wrong about that. Am sorry, am not trying to say that am a pro cheaters, but the thing is, who said that falling in love is only belong to singles. I just don’t buy that. Besides, who can control those kind of things, no one. I don’t plan to fall in love since I knew it was kind of unacceptable to do so when you were not singles, but it happens. My dear friend then said that if you were committed yourself to someone then you should aware with the consequential that follows. Well my friend, believe me when I said I do. But I can’t control my feelings, am sorry I just can’t.
Likewise, who would be strong enough to control who they fall for? I mean, when you fall in love, was that your feeling or your common sense that playing a part? Because for me, it was totally my feeling. Therefore, I can never control who I fall for. As an example, if I fall for someone who was not single, who should I blame? I certainly won’t blame myself as I never planned to fall in love to a wrong guy. Besides, who can say exactly which person is right and which one is wrong for you to fall for? Um…no one? Seriously, just because a guy has been taken, does that mean that you were not allow to fall for him? Come on, who made that lame rule? That was so unfair. Well, if you were a mad type of person who willing to do anything to get the person that you fell for, of course that was fair enough. But, am talking about myself. For someone like me and my friends, that was unnecessary. I mean, when we fell for someone in a fun way, then we will keep it simply fun. I mean, not that we will steal them from their girlfriends or anything like that. It was not even in the schemes. Not that we will leave our partner either, but as I said, a fun thing will always be a fun thing. So yeah, when my friend was having fun with that guy that she flirt with, for me, and this was because I knew her very well, that was simply a fun thingy that she played that time. Then I tried to explained it to another friend who, for some reasons, took it seriously, that he had nothing to worry about. That my friend and I were not going to commit an adultery or anything close to that. He was like, “You guys love playing with fire.” I was like, “Yeah, we do. But only because we were made of water so we will never get burn.”
Okay, let me explain my words to you guys. My friends and I were never take anything too serious. I mean, we took our relationship with our partners seriously, of course. But it doesn’t mean that we can’t socialize. We are not those type of people who shut down all of outside world just because we have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. That was so lame and so not us. Often others mistaken our attitude as some of them might said that we were a player, but we were actually not. The thing is, when we decided to be friends with someone, then the last thing that we care is if they are taken or available. Those facts won’t change our intention. So, for anyone who feels threatening because of, we in general and me to be exact, coincidentally were friends with your boyfriend, my wise words for you would be, “Get real!” Because, seriously, even if we’re fall in love to someone else’s boyfriend, so what? Falling in love doesn’t mean that we are going to get the guy, we all are unavailable ourselves, remember? So, don’t worry too much. Just because of we were too hasty on deciding to fall in love with someone, or just because we have so much loves in our hearts, doesn't mean that we're going to steal anyone’s boyfriend here. I mean, how could someone steal such thing, unless if the person allowed us to, that was a different story and we will talk about it in my next blog, hah!
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