Wake Up And Smell The Coffee

I was hosting a pool party at my house two weeks ago when my dear friend Natasha (of course it’s not a real name, are you kidding me?) cried her head off when she talk about her boyfriend. Here’s the story, last year she met a guy who was literally crazy about her. Oh yeah, everyone can see that from a mile. The way he looked at her, the way he kissed her, so crazy about her. And so does she, crazy about him and feel like he is the best man in the world. Every single day for these last one and a half years, all that she talked about was her boyfriend, Kevin (yup, also not a real name). Kevin this, Kevin that, Kevin said like this, Kevin said like that, you know, those kind of things that make you want to puke. But honestly, we are all happy for her as she deserved it. So yeah, it was kind of surprising for us when she started crying. She said that her boyfriend hardly pick up her phone call lately, said that he was busy but always has time for his best friend, a girl named Mariska (hu-um, not a real name for sure). She said that he even asked her to move out of the house that they share together because of he needs space. Say what?
First, my other girlfriends and I were speechless. Nope, not because of we did not believe what we heard, but mostly because we were hated it seeing her crying over something like that. Seriously girl, that is the sign that he is just not that in to you. So for us, the only thing that you should do is leave him! He really does not worth your tears. But, how do you tell that to someone like Natasha? She is a kind of sensitive girl who has a real shallow thought about man. She really depends on her man, like life is nothing without him. And in the other hand, she does not have any job and place to stay because of her once called a best boyfriend in the world, told her that she doesn’t have to work, that he would take a good care of her. Such a bullsh*t!
So, that was the story of my friend Natasha. And the reason why I wrote this story here is because I really want her to wake up and smells the coffee. Come on, if a guy says something like that, it means he wants to brake up with you but doesn’t know how to say it to you. Need space? Who is he kidding with? If a guy says that he needs space, if a guy never answer your phone, put you at second place after another girl who he claimed as his best friend, that means that he does not enjoy your companionship anymore, means that he had enough of you, so leave! World does not end just because of your guy said that he needs space. Beside, it will makes you feel better if you are the one who leave him rather than he becomes the one leaves you. And that is the truth, trust me!
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