Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends?

This is hilarious, if you are a guy and already has a girlfriend, can you still be friend with a girl who has a boyfriend too? Yeah, can two non single people with the opposite gender be friends, just friends? Here is the thing, I have more male friends compare to females. And am not single so do most of my friends. So, of course, I found it kind of funny when one of my male friend got into a big problem with his girlfriend because of me. I mean, how did it happen? I can be anything but a threat to anyone. Besides, we barely see each other, but yeah of course..we're friends. At least that what I thought these all time. Maybe am naive or maybe am an ignorant beyotch. But for me, friend is a friend. But then again, I totally understand that different people has different way of thinking. I don't like when people try to make me change the way am thinking as much as I won't try to make others change theirs. So yeah, maybe the best thing is to keep a distance from him so I won't be labeled as a trouble maker by anyone, because am an Aquarian and one of an Aquarian characteristics was a peacemaker..so, world peace? Hah!

Honestly, I feel like am losing something here. Not that we're see each other very often, but for some reasons, I feel like he's a dear friend. So, I will be missing him, for sure. But hey, it's not like the end of the world. Everything is going to be alright. The main thing is am not going to ruined anyone's relationship here. In fact, that the last thing that came to my mind. But, even though I tried so hard to fix everything up, am the outsider here so it's going to be hard for me to convince everyone that I don't mean to do any harm. But I think all of the people that I care, knew. Hey, am not the baddie here! Am more like the mischievous one who could care less about others, someone once ask me was that one of the parts of me being a princess? Hum, could be. But that was me and I love me being me, so I don't think am going to do anything about it. Oh yeah, did I ever mention that am a very stubborn and selfish girl too? So becoming my friends wasn't easy therefore I have only short list of friends. And to lose one of those few was kind of sadden me.
Anyway, back to my question above, can non single people with the opposite gender be friends? Despite of anything? Well, at this point, I came to a conclusion that some of them can and some can't. It depends on how do you deal with every aspect in your life. Maybe am a freak, or maybe my self confidence is way over the top. But yeah, if my man has any female friend, I was never consider them as a threat no matter what. Because I trust myself that big, my self confidence won't let me feel that way. Thanks God for that, because I know how miserable it would be if it happened to me and I have no self confidence to deal with it.
So, at last, I just want to convince everyone once again that am cool and never was a threat for anyone. But I will quit my friendship if it becomes a threat to someone. Sad though, but for everyone's convenience, it must be done. So, this blog is actually a goodbye message to someone who used to be close but now gone, to a very dear friend of mine. Yeah, I will always consider him as a friend, though. Because he was, is, and will always be my friend. For me, friendship doesn't end just because of one of you made a stupid mistake. Because for me, friendship doesn't recognize gender nor status. Because for me, friendship is way beyond those stuffs. And please forgive my ignorant habit, but I never been in the situation of loving someone that deep so I was never afraid of losing anyone in my life. Yeah, am a very selfish girl who never love anyone more than I love myself. So maybe it was my fault for being such a beyotch by ignoring the girlfriend's feeling. Maybe it was just me and my weird way of thinking..I don't know..
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